If any human body could shed some understanding of my “relationship” having a guy that is turkish would actually enjoy it. We specially wish to hear from Turkish guys. My guy that is turkish has in the united states for over a decade. He’s got a card that is greenits azure). He will not need to get married. He just introduced us to their relative and won’t introduce me personally to their buddies whom appear to be hitched to women that are turkish.

He could be Muslim and contains stated though he does not follow his faith if we ever had a child it would be Muslim, even. He often made plans beside me then would not arrive. To start with he had been apologetic he then changed and stated we ought not to be therefore mad – despite the fact that he “disappears” and does not respond to their mobile phone. He has “watched” us to see if we cheat. After confronting him relating to this he stated “just what exactly? So now you separation beside me? ” No appologies. He believes he could be appropriate. Yet, he will not let me know where he goes and gets frustrated with my concerns. He informs me if I leave him alone and do not phone perhaps he can miss me personally. Now, that i will be doing which he gets angry and stated “3 times and you also never phone up to now! We have aggravated with you as a result of that – what exactly are you with brand new boyfriend”

This man is loved by me a great deal it’s insane and it’s also driving me personally insane.

I really like this guy a great deal it’s insane which is driving me insane. He stopped using me away and explained the final girlfriend he ended up being with – they lived together for 4 years as well as never ever went and all sorts of their buddies had been her buddies. After some guy revealed interest for you” I cried so hard in me(a guy bought me flowers) he told me to go on a “date” with this guy “don’t cheat – just get to know him, maybe he better than me. He did not care. And so I did venture out with this particular guy – i did not cheat similar to my Turkish BF asked me personally we simply hung down aided by the man (We have never ever done any such thing similar to this before and I also thought it absolutely was wrong – even though I didn’t cheat). My BF would not call me personally for days will never respond to my phone calls nor phone me personally right back. I did not like to venture out utilizing the flowerguy but my Turkish BF made me feel therefore harmed that I did it to show him up for telling me to do it (he is always telling me go ahead go for this guy or that guy if they seem interested in me – even if I am not interested in the other guys) like he didn’t care.

So following this flower man thing and after dating for a couple of months he separated beside me – we told him i did not cheat. He stated he had been genuine astonished that we sought out using the guy even though i did not cheat. He then said there clearly was a complete lot taking place and then he ended up being stressing over the whole thing. Things happening from their life and from my loved ones too (since they aren’t too approving of how to see who likes you on married secrets without paying us). He explained me personally me but he does not want to hurt me and to stay away that he does love. Yet I am called by him every so often and wishes us to stay buddies.

With me a month ago I have not dated anyone since he broke up. I will be depressed. I happened to be never ever enthusiastic about the flower man him anyway so I wasn’t going to date. We told flower man sorry and essentially explained why i really could not date him. Turkish ex calls me personally every once in awhile and quite often I discuss to their destination and spend some time with him and often I do not look at. Now, this week he calls and asked me personally why I didn’t come over their destination yet. We said “did I am asked by you” He stated “why do i have to ask” We said “We am extremely tired gone to sleep early. Sorry can’t come over. ” that he stated “come over now, you’ve got refused me personally 6 times – We have counted – if you don’t come on it is truly over between us. ” I state ” you separated beside me a thirty days ago. Have always been I nevertheless your gf? ” He said “yes” we simply tell him “what is this some crazy style that is turkish of” he laughed. He understands I would like to be with him. He understands I favor him. We simply tell him to avoid winning contests he informs me he could be maybe perhaps not games that are playing. He appears he is not playing games like he really believes.

Just what exactly the heck is he doing? I’m not sure things to think. We am very confused. He additionally swears he failed to ever cheat like he did) on me when we were together (though, him “disappearing” seemed. We additionally wish to state I am heavily Catholic – i really do a lot of praying and plenty of Novennas (9 time prayers aided by the candles). He considers this “nonsense” and called me a gypsy for this and believes its “beechgraff” which I finally translated that to suggest “witchcraft” – that hurt me personally to hear since I have rely on Jesus and I also felt like both of us rely on Jesus simply in various methods. That we can appreciate and respect our distinctions but he can not perform some exact exact same i assume.

Just what does everybody else think? Thank you for the responses.

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